Love in the Time of Quarantine

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A few years ago my family lost someone very important to them unexpectantly. The loss came out of nowhere and we carried our grief for a long time. I had so many regrets swirling around inside of me about what I wish I would have said to this person. How I wished that they knew that I cared about them and believed in them. But it was too late and I couldn’t say any of those things.

From this loss I learned a really important lesson. Always say how you feel and always say “I love you”.

Brett and I have been together for almost nine years, married for almost three. He’s my person but sometimes he’s also the person who annoys me most in the world. Our marriage isn’t perfect but I learned the hard way to always, always say “I love you.”

Every morning when I leave for work I make sure it’s the last thing I say to him. That’s how we end every single phone call. He texts me that he’s leaving work and I text right back “Drive safe. I love you!” Those are the last words I hear before falling asleep every night. Even if we are mad at each other we always make sure to say “I love you” and mean it.

My family has always been very loving. Every phone call with my mom or my sister ends with “I luhhhh you, boo boo”. There will never be a question on if we loved each other or not.

In these scary times I think it is especially important to let people know how you feel about them. I am very aware of this and try not to take any day together or conversation for granted. We might not be able to leave our homes right now but we can still call, text, or facetime our loved ones and check in on them.

Have you told someone that you loved them today?

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8 thoughts on “Love in the Time of Quarantine

  1. Bryan J. Fagan says:

    Such a perfect post.

    We are living in unusual times. Most of us will come out of this okay but others won’t. And that’s the problem. We don’t know who that is. Your post is a reminder to take time and be grateful of the people in our lives. Not only be grateful but to tell them.

    Be safe. We’ll survive this thing.

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    • Life of Hayley says:

      Thank you! We sure are. I never want to feel like I’m taking anyone for granted but times like this make that even more important.

      I hope you are doing well and staying safe as well!

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